Is
it just ME – and Socrates, or are you, too, always curious as to
the ‘who, what, where, when why and how’.
I was blessed to be
raised in a family that delighted in my ‘need to know’. I never remember simply being today,
“Because”, in answer to any of my questions.
I was fed with information, which, guess what; provoked more questions.
I remember in an early
Philosophy class in college studying the ancients: Plato, Aristotle, Socrates. When we got to Socrates, classmates were
quick to turn their heads and comment, “That’s you, Beth!” Yes,
they were right. Socrates, a student of Aristotle was known for asking
questions!
I recall driving with
my Mom and asking her if she thought there were more blades of grass or grains
of sand in the world! She supposed there
were more grains of sand. I supposed she
was right! (She most often was!)
While sitting at a red
light in close proximity to a large department store (I miss you, Bonwit Teller!) I asked my Mom how many bricks she
thought were in the building. She said,
“Well, let’s do some math!”
Do you realize how
lucky I was? I’m not sure I did in those
moments, but I sure came to realize it.
I came to appreciate that questions do have answers – or at least they
provoke thoughtful conjecture, conversation, assumptions, etc! I learned – as we are all told – there are no
stupid questions, just stupid answers!
But, I wasn’t answered
that way. I was answered so as to cause
me to continue to think, to expand my mind.
In so doing, I gained a wealth of information and didn’t grow up being
afraid to ask. I also learned not to be
afraid if I were asked a question to which I had no ready answer. I was given the gift of a sound foundation of
communication. I learned to listen, to
think and to answer; not just to respond.
We all have ready
resources if information. Technology
makes it simple to find factual answers to questions – that’s great. I wonder, though, what negative effect it may
be having on the whole cycle of communication.
Do we want to know,
just to know? Don’t we want to know so
we can share, learn from each other and to grow. Is the strength of our thumbs growing
exponentially to the expansion of our minds?
Call me old fashioned,
but nothing beats the magic of human imagination and the world of “I
wonder…..”.
So, I wonder where the
world would be if we began to speak more, to actually answer, rather than just
responding…I wonder what would happen if we could just imagine more and know a
tiny bit less.
Technology serves us
well in the sciences and we have benefited greatly from advances in medicine
because of it. Technology has overloaded
us with less valuable information, the benefit of which “ I wonder”.
SO, is it
just ME – and Socrates – or do you, too remember the joy of days when you could
just wonder, imagine, dream, without
really knowing? Maybe I just miss
driving around with my Mom and talking to her – boy, do I ever!
"Wisdom
begins in wonder."
Socrates